Giving a damn about your children…

I’ve tried SO hard to stay away from politics on my blog. I’ve tried to keep it focused on birds, rockhounding, etc. I have to, just to stay sane. But after the last week, I have to momentarily go off-topic. I need some catharsis.

I still vividly remember two years ago, when the “pussy tape” came out about Trump.  The feelings of outright disgust that such a man could be running for the most powerful job on the planet.  But then I was actually…glad…glad the tape was out there. With a mere 5 weeks before the election, the tape sealed the deal. There’s absolutely no way such a disgusting, misogynistic, narcissistic piece of shit like him could win.  My mind was at peace.

And then, election night. The knot in my stomach, transitioning to outright nausea, particularly as it dawned on me…there’s a massive segment of the population that AGREES with this man. What has been the most disheartening over the last 2 years aren’t the old, white, misogynistic, racist politicians. There will always be men like Trump, Kavanaugh, and literally every male personality on Fox News.  What’s the most disheartening is that so many of my fellow Americans have the same selfish, morally corrupt core.

The Kavanaugh confirmation fiasco over the last week has reinforced the one thought in my mind that’s been there for the last two years…do any of these people actually give a damn about their children?  Kavanaugh has been accused by multiple women of sexual assault and other misogynistic behaviors. The testimony this week from Ford was compelling and obviously fit with all the other evidence of the attitudes and behavior of Kavanaugh’s circle of friends in high school and college. Throughout the confirmation hearings, Kavanaugh repeatedly lied…about his drinking, about his past behavior, even about the very meaning of established slang words related to sexual behavior.  I’m horrified by the man.  Horrified by his sense of entitlement to the SCOTUS seat. Horrified by his dismissive behavior towards women, including towards the Senators in the hearing last Thursday.

For those that support Trump and Kavanaugh…how the HELL do you face your children? Particularly if you have daughters? There are two categories here in which I think you could put supporters: 1) those that don’t even want to know the truth, as long as “their” guy wins, and 2) those that don’t think sexual assault is a disqualifying event.  For those that don’t want to even KNOW the truth, you’re placing your own selfish political ideology ahead of the law, and ahead of basic morality.  You’re telling your children that winning at all costs…be it bending the rules, ignoring the rules, or covering up the truth, is OK as long as your own selfish desires are met. You’re saying it’s OK to “fight dirty”, to demean the “other side”, to treat them as lesser entities. It’s OK to abandon all morality, stick your fingers in your ears and scream NA-NA-NA-NA-NA if ignoring the truth lets you get what you want.

The second stance is even worse. If you support Kavanaugh, even if the allegations were true and he DID sexually assault multiple women, you’re saying women are of lesser value than men, that men can do whatever they want to women, without consequence.  You’re TELLING YOUR DAUGHTERS THAT THEY ARE NOT EQUAL, that it is OK for a man to rape or  otherwise sexually assault you.  You are telling your wives and daughters not to bother reporting sexual assault, as they will be mocked, demeaned, humiliated, and ignored.  YOU ARE TELLING THEM THEY JUST…DON’T…MATTER.  Imagine YOUR DAUGHTER being raped.  Imagine a society that shames her from even reporting the event. Imagine a society that threatens HER, the VICTIM, for reporting a sexual assault.  Imagine your daughter living with that pain and humiliation her entire life, knowing that nobody really gives a damn. Evidently…not even many parents.

Both are repugnant positions. It baffles me how any human being with any basic morality, particularly anyone with children, could adopt either position. That attitude goes far beyond the Kavanaugh case, of course. While the Kavanaugh case and other outrages grab the headlines, behind the scenes this administration is rapidly dismantling environmental protections, all in the name of short-term economic gain. Clean water, clean air, food safety…regulations for each of these are being gutted at an unprecedented pace. The big daddy of them all is what’s happening with climate change science and regulation, with the word “climate” itself being stricken from the agendas and work flows of government agencies. What’s most abhorrent about the right’s stance on climate is that they KNOW it’s happening. They KNOW CLIMATE CHANGE WILL BE A TREMENDOUS BURDEN ON THEIR CHILDREN and future generations.  And they just…don’t…give a damn, because dealing with climate change might mean some minor sacrifice on their part.

There really is only one conclusion…those on the right just don’t give a damn about their children.

I could go on…and on…and on. But again, for the sake of my sanity, I’ll stop here and return to birds, rockhounding, and nature photos…

 

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